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<blockquote data-quote="JonDough" data-source="post: 2386185" data-attributes="member: 24427"><p>DHS should stay the hell out of your lives unless 1. You are doing something wrong 2. you are not careing for your child correctly 3. you are not paying or are continually late, etc. All this "automatic" bullfeces is just that. Where the hell do they get off forcing themselves into the private lives of someone who is in no way doing anything wrong. </p><p></p><p>Welcome to the machine.It's all a part of the big takeover.</p><p></p><p> P.S. i'm sure for some it works great, and for those, cool....but overall they have NO business meddling in the lives of people doing the right things by their kids.</p><p></p><p> I got divorced like 22 years ago and my ex told the lawyer she didn't WANT there to be any child support written into our divorce, because she knew i would ALWAYS support my son ( 1 year old at the time) and didn't need any "department" telling us what should be done...but he told us, tough...the state does it. So She had him write up a seperate statement that she personally refuses and "child support" payments from me. So he did and it was all official etc..etc as far as her and I went. Don't know how that would have went over with DHS, but i never made not one "child support" payment to her in the 17 years it took for my child to turn 18. Now.....we had "joint" custody...but He was with me 90% of the time. I paid for most everything his whole life. I paid for his insurance, i paid for his needs, i paid for school related stuff, i paid for medical co-pays, i bought clothes when he needed them, i bought almost everything his whole life. I bought his "toys", paid for sports stuff, etc..etc..etc. When he got older, i paid cell phone bills, i paid for cars and car insurance. </p><p></p><p> I'm not saying this 'cause trying to make myself out to be some great person or anything, but because i know there's TONS of dads (and Mom's) out there that do the same thing and more....because regardless of their marriage situation, their children are their lives. So in those cases, who needs DHS having ANYTHING to say about ANYTHING? </p><p></p><p>just my opinion</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="JonDough, post: 2386185, member: 24427"] DHS should stay the hell out of your lives unless 1. You are doing something wrong 2. you are not careing for your child correctly 3. you are not paying or are continually late, etc. All this "automatic" bullfeces is just that. Where the hell do they get off forcing themselves into the private lives of someone who is in no way doing anything wrong. Welcome to the machine.It's all a part of the big takeover. P.S. i'm sure for some it works great, and for those, cool....but overall they have NO business meddling in the lives of people doing the right things by their kids. I got divorced like 22 years ago and my ex told the lawyer she didn't WANT there to be any child support written into our divorce, because she knew i would ALWAYS support my son ( 1 year old at the time) and didn't need any "department" telling us what should be done...but he told us, tough...the state does it. So She had him write up a seperate statement that she personally refuses and "child support" payments from me. So he did and it was all official etc..etc as far as her and I went. Don't know how that would have went over with DHS, but i never made not one "child support" payment to her in the 17 years it took for my child to turn 18. Now.....we had "joint" custody...but He was with me 90% of the time. I paid for most everything his whole life. I paid for his insurance, i paid for his needs, i paid for school related stuff, i paid for medical co-pays, i bought clothes when he needed them, i bought almost everything his whole life. I bought his "toys", paid for sports stuff, etc..etc..etc. When he got older, i paid cell phone bills, i paid for cars and car insurance. I'm not saying this 'cause trying to make myself out to be some great person or anything, but because i know there's TONS of dads (and Mom's) out there that do the same thing and more....because regardless of their marriage situation, their children are their lives. So in those cases, who needs DHS having ANYTHING to say about ANYTHING? just my opinion [/QUOTE]
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