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I'm pretty sure my attorney said a will still goes through probate. It may be different if there is a living spouse, as my understanding has always been that the spouse automatically inherits everything. I don't specifically remember hearing him say that, but he did say a will still goes through probate, but still it's better to have than to not. It is much harder to contest a valid will than if none exists, or if it is unclear, so that's why I say probate is probably much quicker and less complicated with a will.

I assume this is to allow time for anyone to contest the will, but ultimately a judge declares it a valid will.

As I understand it (and I may not) a trust is its own legal entity, so everything that belongs to my trust, technically, is not owned by me personally, it is owned by the trust. As the administrator, I have complete control over how it is used, sold, etc. but it belongs to the trust, not to me. When I die, it therefore will not change hands, it will still be owned by the trust, and will be under the control of whoever the next administrator is. So whichever between me and my wife survives longest controls the trust, once the second of us passes everything STILL belongs to the trust, but the next administrator will settle everything and distribute the estate to our heirs, as directed in our will (so we have a will also, but I'm not entirely certain how that works, if it is PART of the trust, or technically how that is described). I also remember him saying that some things would still go to probate, for example if we did not transfer our cars into the trust they would be probated, but if we put them in the name of the trust, they belong to the trust and not subject to probate.

This was all a year or two ago, so I stand subject to be corrected, but that's what I remember him saying.

this sounds pretty accurate to me.
Unfortunately I'll learn all this very soon as my mother is very old and has some serious health issues going on now, that could be terminal (cancer). She begins chemo tomorrow and if it doesnt work, its her last option,
My father is in horrible condition and I dont know if he'll make it to see 85. He just turned 84 Sunday.
 

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I'm sorry to hear all of that about your mother and father. Prayers for all of you.

Probably what all that means is that anyone with concerns should check with their own attorney.
 

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I did some research and found thi interesting explanation. This one section answered a lot of questions and we are all wrong here.

Is Probate Always Required?
It is important to know whether a probate is required following the death of an individual. The probate process can take a long time to finalize. The more complex or contested the estate is, the more time it will take to settle and distribute the assets. The longer the duration, the higher the cost. Probating an estate without a will is typically costlier than probating one with a valid will. However, the time and cost required of each are still high. Also, since the proceedings of a probate court are publicly recorded, avoiding probate would ensure that all settlements are done privately.


Different states have different laws concerning probate and whether probate is required after the death of a testator. Probate is not required if the value of the decedent’s estate falls below a certain amount; an amount that varies from state to state. For example, probate laws in Texas hold that if the value of the estate is less than $50,000, then probate may be skipped. If an estate is small enough to bypass the probate process, then the estate’s asset may be claimed using an affidavit signed under oath by a beneficiary.


Some assets can bypass probate, meaning that probate is not required for the transfer of these assets to beneficiaries. Pension plans, life insurance proceeds, 401k plans, health or medical savings accounts, and individual retirement accounts (IRA) that have designated beneficiaries will not need to be probated. Likewise, assets jointly owned with a right of survivorship and property held in a trust are likely to bypass the probate process.


Because of the costs of court involvement in the probate process and the potential for involvement of lawyers who collect fees from the estate of the deceased, many people try to minimize costs associated with the probate process. There are tremendous legal and tax complexities in the probate process, so it is advisable to have a will and speak with a lawyer and financial professional to ensure that your loved ones are not left with the complicated and often messy task of distributing the assets of your estate upon your passing.

Read the entire thing here
https://www.investopedia.com/terms/p/probate.asp
 

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I did some research and found thi interesting explanation. This one section answered a lot of questions and we are all wrong here.

Is Probate Always Required?
It is important to know whether a probate is required following the death of an individual. The probate process can take a long time to finalize. The more complex or contested the estate is, the more time it will take to settle and distribute the assets. The longer the duration, the higher the cost. Probating an estate without a will is typically costlier than probating one with a valid will. However, the time and cost required of each are still high. Also, since the proceedings of a probate court are publicly recorded, avoiding probate would ensure that all settlements are done privately.


Different states have different laws concerning probate and whether probate is required after the death of a testator. Probate is not required if the value of the decedent’s estate falls below a certain amount; an amount that varies from state to state. For example, probate laws in Texas hold that if the value of the estate is less than $50,000, then probate may be skipped. If an estate is small enough to bypass the probate process, then the estate’s asset may be claimed using an affidavit signed under oath by a beneficiary.


Some assets can bypass probate, meaning that probate is not required for the transfer of these assets to beneficiaries. Pension plans, life insurance proceeds, 401k plans, health or medical savings accounts, and individual retirement accounts (IRA) that have designated beneficiaries will not need to be probated. Likewise, assets jointly owned with a right of survivorship and property held in a trust are likely to bypass the probate process.


Because of the costs of court involvement in the probate process and the potential for involvement of lawyers who collect fees from the estate of the deceased, many people try to minimize costs associated with the probate process. There are tremendous legal and tax complexities in the probate process, so it is advisable to have a will and speak with a lawyer and financial professional to ensure that your loved ones are not left with the complicated and often messy task of distributing the assets of your estate upon your passing.

Read the entire thing here
https://www.investopedia.com/terms/p/probate.asp


So, in reading that, it's kinda saying that the best case scenario might be to have both a will and a trust! Especially is property is involved. Maybe.
 

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I've forgotten a lot of the detail, but my attorney said you need a will even if you have a trust. I'm not sure there is a single solution that is best for everyone, but if you have significant assets I would advise talking to an attorney. It isn't necessarily cheap, but the last thing I want my heirs to do is fight over my stuff, or almost as bad have to go through a lot of stress and aggravation to settle my estate. So I tried to make it as easy on them as possible.
 

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You can write up your own will but it has to have witnesses and be notarized if I'm not mistaken. A simple will can easily be overturned in court so be careful.
 

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You can write up your own will but it has to have witnesses and be notarized if I'm not mistaken. A simple will can easily be overturned in court so be careful.
Neither witnesses nor notarization are allowed for a holographic will in Oklahoma.
https://oklaw.org/resource/making-your-own-will

I don't think there's anything that prevents you from writing your own non-holographic will, which does need to be witnessed by an adult who has no interest in the estate, but if you're going to that trouble, you really ought to pay a lawyer to do it. Or at least get one of the online forms...
 

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If you own property in different counties a trust is the way to go.
The estate will have to go thru probate in each county that property is owned. A trust doesn't have to.
I watched a guy lose a house in Tulsa because it sat in Osage county and he filed the probate in Tulsa county.
He thought the taxes were all paid cause he couldn't find a record in the Tulsa county property search.
Osage county sold it last June.
 

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