Well I am home. Helped my father get a few things done including his server up and running. Was wanting to go for a little hike at one point but that didn't happen. Was told to come out for at least 3 weeks and he wanted to go a place or two while I was there. I think I mentioned once before that his wife was the reason why he never met my wife. Well I ended up leaving out at about 6 in the evening because of her crap. She basically kept saying from a couple days before 3 weeks was up that I should go home. I had already planned to leave out Thursday the 18th.
For almost two weeks she kept sulking in the kitchen or in one of the other rooms. Complaining about smelling the dog if a window was open among other things. On Wednesday evening she decided she wad going to clean so everything had to go out of the room I was in. She deflated and packed up the air mattress since there was no real furniture when I arrived then she went into the master bathroom and sat there to stay hidden. I packed my things up and left out. I also called her out on her crap. The whole time I was there it was my father's house furniture etc but when I was leaving she told him I was no longer welcome in her house. My father's daughter [my half sister I guess] is already not welcome. The only thing I can think of is she wants to alienate everyone from him.
I'm glad I told my father the bs she had pulled over Christmas a couple days before so it wasn't seen as a lie or retaliation.
I carried some boxes of things that I know would be important for my wife's daughter and she had agreed to come down and pick it up while i wad there since I would be a couple hours away from Phoenix where she lives and then she had "doctor appointments" every day so couldn't pick stuff up. Basically she expected me to carry it downto her when she would be available. Told her I knew it was bs. Then she says ship it to her..... Now I have an email from her saying she can't deal with "other people's problems" I guess I should just stick the stuff in a storage unit send her the info to pay for it and a key. May as well take a page from her book and not deal with other people's problems too.
I cut ties with my mother and the rest of my other family as well due to dysfunctional crap and constant infighting 15 years ago. The only person who ever really mattered to me was my wife.
Is it just me who seems to always have this type of crap? At this point in time I basically have no contact with anyone family wise do to stupid stuff. I don't even want to talk with my father at this point.
For almost two weeks she kept sulking in the kitchen or in one of the other rooms. Complaining about smelling the dog if a window was open among other things. On Wednesday evening she decided she wad going to clean so everything had to go out of the room I was in. She deflated and packed up the air mattress since there was no real furniture when I arrived then she went into the master bathroom and sat there to stay hidden. I packed my things up and left out. I also called her out on her crap. The whole time I was there it was my father's house furniture etc but when I was leaving she told him I was no longer welcome in her house. My father's daughter [my half sister I guess] is already not welcome. The only thing I can think of is she wants to alienate everyone from him.
I'm glad I told my father the bs she had pulled over Christmas a couple days before so it wasn't seen as a lie or retaliation.
I carried some boxes of things that I know would be important for my wife's daughter and she had agreed to come down and pick it up while i wad there since I would be a couple hours away from Phoenix where she lives and then she had "doctor appointments" every day so couldn't pick stuff up. Basically she expected me to carry it downto her when she would be available. Told her I knew it was bs. Then she says ship it to her..... Now I have an email from her saying she can't deal with "other people's problems" I guess I should just stick the stuff in a storage unit send her the info to pay for it and a key. May as well take a page from her book and not deal with other people's problems too.
I cut ties with my mother and the rest of my other family as well due to dysfunctional crap and constant infighting 15 years ago. The only person who ever really mattered to me was my wife.
Is it just me who seems to always have this type of crap? At this point in time I basically have no contact with anyone family wise do to stupid stuff. I don't even want to talk with my father at this point.
