dealing with hatred

saddlebum said:

In November I lost my job due to falling oil prices, since then the only job I was able to find in my field is a contract position with no benefits except a company van. I get up at 4am to drive to Tulsa everyday work out in the heat all day and get home around 6pm.
When I get home I want to take a shower ,eat dinner cool off watching tv until I go to bed around 8:30pm

What actually happens is I come home to a house full of people , it is 80+ degrees because they turned my ac off cause grandma was cold. She is in my chair with the TV tuned to her favorite shows. I eat my reheated dinner cause grandma couldn't wait til I got there. I go to my office room and surf the web and dream about where I could hide the bodies.
I go to bed around 8:30 but don't sleep because the are hootin and hollering like they are at the chicken fights. When I finally go in and tell them to keep it down cause I gotta get up at 4am I'm the rude ******* who only cares about hisself

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saddlebum said:

In November I lost my job due to falling oil prices, since then the only job I was able to find in my field is a contract position with no benefits except a company van. I get up at 4am to drive to Tulsa everyday work out in the heat all day and get home around 6pm.
When I get home I want to take a shower ,eat dinner cool off watching tv until I go to bed around 8:30pm

What actually happens is I come home to a house full of people , it is 80+ degrees because they turned my ac off cause grandma was cold. She is in my chair with the TV tuned to her favorite shows. I eat my reheated dinner cause grandma couldn't wait til I got there. I go to my office room and surf the web and dream about where I could hide the bodies.
I go to bed around 8:30 but don't sleep because the are hootin and hollering like they are at the chicken fights. When I finally go in and tell them to keep it down cause I gotta get up at 4am I'm the rude ******* who only cares about hisself

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saddlebum said:

In November I lost my job due to falling oil prices, since then the only job I was able to find in my field is a contract position with no benefits except a company van. I get up at 4am to drive to Tulsa everyday work out in the heat all day and get home around 6pm.
When I get home I want to take a shower ,eat dinner cool off watching tv until I go to bed around 8:30pm

What actually happens is I come home to a house full of people , it is 80+ degrees because they turned my ac off cause grandma was cold. She is in my chair with the TV tuned to her favorite shows. I eat my reheated dinner cause grandma couldn't wait til I got there. I go to my office room and surf the web and dream about where I could hide the bodies.
I go to bed around 8:30 but don't sleep because the are hootin and hollering like they are at the chicken fights. When I finally go in and tell them to keep it down cause I gotta get up at 4am I'm the rude ******* who only cares about hisself

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Shadowrider said:

Oh helllll no...

Sounds like typical libtard democrats. They don't even know what having a job entails and show you no respect in your desire to make a living of your own. I'm still at a loss as to why this has to take place at yours and your wife's house and not grandma's. If it's only a quarter mile away it would seem that travel isn't an issue. If it were me I'd throw down the gauntlet. Boot them all to grandma's apartment. If your wife needs to stay over, buy her a trundle bed or cot to sleep on when over there. It's not forever, but the toll it's taking on you might well be...

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RidgeHunter said:

Fawk that noise. I could not deal. I've done long days in the heat coupled with a long drive many times and I want a/c, a beer, good food, and quiet.

FWIW I have 3 grandparents over 88 that take care of themselves and I bet they're in worse shape than this woman. My 88 year-old grandma lives alone and only calls when she needs a ride to the ER and apologies the whole way there for being a burden (she's not). If she's got a nice apartment she needs to go there. She can get an in-home nurse or something. 1/4 mile away, your wife can go visit.

It's great and admirable and respectable to take care of family, but there is a line and it's somewhere in front of your chair grandma plops her ass in when you get off work. Your home is for yourself and your wife to be comfortable in and have a relationship with each other. Anyone else is a guest and should act like one or not expect to be invited back.

Edit: I guess you could always grab a key to grandma's nice apartment and go stay there.

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saddlebum said:

In November I lost my job due to falling oil prices, since then the only job I was able to find in my field is a contract position with no benefits except a company van. I get up at 4am to drive to Tulsa everyday work out in the heat all day and get home around 6pm.
When I get home I want to take a shower ,eat dinner cool off watching tv until I go to bed around 8:30pm

What actually happens is I come home to a house full of people , it is 80+ degrees because they turned my ac off cause grandma was cold. She is in my chair with the TV tuned to her favorite shows. I eat my reheated dinner cause grandma couldn't wait til I got there. I go to my office room and surf the web and dream about where I could hide the bodies.
I go to bed around 8:30 but don't sleep because the are hootin and hollering like they are at the chicken fights. When I finally go in and tell them to keep it down cause I gotta get up at 4am I'm the rude ******* who only cares about hisself

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RidgeHunter said:

Edit: I guess you could always grab a key to grandma's nice apartment and go stay there.

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