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<blockquote data-quote="-Pjackso" data-source="post: 2786046" data-attributes="member: 8119"><p>Saddle,</p><p>Sorry for the bad situation.</p><p></p><p>It sounds like you -want- to be a nice person, but the other people just somehow push your buttons. (various reasons)</p><p>...And as you mentioned, it places you in a bad situation with a bad mood - which may effect your marriage.</p><p>SO the question is how to you manage your attitude, given such a situation.</p><p></p><p>I think you've already tried to 'suck-it-up', ...but sometime it's too much.</p><p>If that fails, I'd recommend you consider outside help. </p><p>Maybe a counselor/therapist to help put things in perspective, develop new tools to minimize the anger, and how to mitigate the effects.</p><p></p><p></p><p>It's tough spot. Sorry.</p><p>I hope you find a way to figure it out.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="-Pjackso, post: 2786046, member: 8119"] Saddle, Sorry for the bad situation. It sounds like you -want- to be a nice person, but the other people just somehow push your buttons. (various reasons) ...And as you mentioned, it places you in a bad situation with a bad mood - which may effect your marriage. SO the question is how to you manage your attitude, given such a situation. I think you've already tried to 'suck-it-up', ...but sometime it's too much. If that fails, I'd recommend you consider outside help. Maybe a counselor/therapist to help put things in perspective, develop new tools to minimize the anger, and how to mitigate the effects. It's tough spot. Sorry. I hope you find a way to figure it out. [/QUOTE]
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