We do care, but after 7 years of being taken advantage of, we've learn to draw lines. We still include her in lots of family things, but I've stopped working on her cell phone, stopped going over to fix her TV she keeps messing up because she won't take the time to learn how to work her remotes (I've tried to teach her 100 times, she just waves her hand and says, "Oh just fix it, it'll be fine"), all kinds of little things. We just had to limit how much we would let her use us. So she's reached out and roped in some others, but we haven't cut her off.
But she needs to go to Assisted Living.
But she needs to go to Assisted Living.