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<blockquote data-quote="458 SOCOM" data-source="post: 2085476" data-attributes="member: 3974"><p>Dave,</p><p></p><p>First let me say, I am very sorry. </p><p></p><p>I to have lost a spouse of several years to divorce. It does get better, even to the point that your motivated to show the other person I can Move on with my life even though you rejected me, another person has found me perfect.</p><p></p><p>Many people are going to tell you how you should feel at various points of this journey, they mean well, however you will know what is best for you. </p><p></p><p>Keeping busy with work or hobbies is a great way to keep from dwelling, but the mind is a memory bank full of experiences. One day while driving down the road something about her will pop into your mind, don't get angry, just part of it.</p><p></p><p>Now the tough one, hate me all you want after I say it, your soon to be ex will start seeing other people if she isn't already. When your out an about an you see her with another guy you are going to blow your cool. This is pride screwing with your mind. Lay the pride down, be the bigger person. See the big picture.</p><p></p><p>So take one day at a time, crawl before you walk, walk before you run, and run from her memory a fast as you can. </p><p></p><p>My story did have a bitter sweet ending. I eventually do remarry. A wonderful woman who would show me loyalty and would always back my play no matter what, even if I was wrong.</p><p>Unfortunately my wife passed away from a massive stroke. </p><p>So I am dealing with a different kind if loss this go around. </p><p></p><p>So keep your chin up kiddo, keep your gloves up and protect yourself at all times and when the bell rings come out fighting!</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="458 SOCOM, post: 2085476, member: 3974"] Dave, First let me say, I am very sorry. I to have lost a spouse of several years to divorce. It does get better, even to the point that your motivated to show the other person I can Move on with my life even though you rejected me, another person has found me perfect. Many people are going to tell you how you should feel at various points of this journey, they mean well, however you will know what is best for you. Keeping busy with work or hobbies is a great way to keep from dwelling, but the mind is a memory bank full of experiences. One day while driving down the road something about her will pop into your mind, don't get angry, just part of it. Now the tough one, hate me all you want after I say it, your soon to be ex will start seeing other people if she isn't already. When your out an about an you see her with another guy you are going to blow your cool. This is pride screwing with your mind. Lay the pride down, be the bigger person. See the big picture. So take one day at a time, crawl before you walk, walk before you run, and run from her memory a fast as you can. My story did have a bitter sweet ending. I eventually do remarry. A wonderful woman who would show me loyalty and would always back my play no matter what, even if I was wrong. Unfortunately my wife passed away from a massive stroke. So I am dealing with a different kind if loss this go around. So keep your chin up kiddo, keep your gloves up and protect yourself at all times and when the bell rings come out fighting! [/QUOTE]
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