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<blockquote data-quote="alank2" data-source="post: 2087296" data-attributes="member: 108"><p>Hi,</p><p></p><p>I'm praying for you and your family shooterdave. I'm not sure how much I can offer for help or ideas, but I agree with the posts that say <strong>do not give up</strong> or be defeated if this isn't what you want. If you think there is a chance at saving things put your energy and prayer into it. Since you mention that you were blindsided, I take that as you are completely happy with things and didn't realize that she wasn't. Find out *where* she isn't feeling loved and make changes to meet it. I recently read a book called The 5 Love Languages that brings up the idea that everyone doesn't feel loved in the same way. For some people getting positive words is how they feel loved, for other people it is acts of service, etc. Someone could be spinning their wheels doing one thing for their spouse that the spouse might appreciate, but it still doesn't make them feel loved like a different thing might. I admit that this concept has been simplified in this book, but he has some good ideas. I think it is $6 at amazon for reading on your PC.</p><p></p><p><a href="http://www.5lovelanguages.com/" target="_blank">http://www.5lovelanguages.com/</a></p><p></p><p>Take care,</p><p></p><p>Alan</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="alank2, post: 2087296, member: 108"] Hi, I'm praying for you and your family shooterdave. I'm not sure how much I can offer for help or ideas, but I agree with the posts that say [b]do not give up[/b] or be defeated if this isn't what you want. If you think there is a chance at saving things put your energy and prayer into it. Since you mention that you were blindsided, I take that as you are completely happy with things and didn't realize that she wasn't. Find out *where* she isn't feeling loved and make changes to meet it. I recently read a book called The 5 Love Languages that brings up the idea that everyone doesn't feel loved in the same way. For some people getting positive words is how they feel loved, for other people it is acts of service, etc. Someone could be spinning their wheels doing one thing for their spouse that the spouse might appreciate, but it still doesn't make them feel loved like a different thing might. I admit that this concept has been simplified in this book, but he has some good ideas. I think it is $6 at amazon for reading on your PC. [url]http://www.5lovelanguages.com/[/url] Take care, Alan [/QUOTE]
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