Thanks... Spent some time with her today. She is not fully coherent but when she is she is refusing food and water. Her O2 is running in the 70's when she doesn't keep her supplemental on. Tonight when she was trying to drive her bed around thinking she was in her power chair I went down and let the nurse know it was a good time to give her meds to her. Since she has a peg tube that means it has to be mixed with water so she at least got a little bit that she didn't refuse.
Sounds like she is ready to go. My mom prayed every night toward the end to be taken because she couldn't take the pain any more. Her prayers were answered a few days later.