Should I tell my sister in law she's getting fat?

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She's in her late thirties and has always been attractive and she dresses stylish but the last three or four years she has started to pork up a little bit. Should I tell her that so that she can slim down and start looking good again? Should I tell my brother so that he can encourage her to slim down? Or should I not even worry about it and figure that if he can live with her like that, then I shouldn't even bother? But I sure hate to see that happen.
 

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This thread is useless without pictures.:naughty:
However it is your sister in law. It doesnt matter if she looks like a 2 bit *%*&^% as long as she treats your brother good and treats him with respect who cares. However I can see this being acceptable if you knew her personally as a friend or something for many years. Maybe if more people were like you we would have more accountability and all lose weight and no longer be the #1 most obese country in the world.
 

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If you're doing it solely to piss her off and make a scene at the expense of hurting her feelings and ruining multiple relationships because it makes you laugh and you simply don't care...then yes.

If you actually for a minute think you are being helpful, then no. And you're dumb.
 

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She's in her late thirties and has always been attractive and she dresses stylish but the last three or four years she has started to pork up a little bit. Should I tell her that so that she can slim down and start looking good again? Should I tell my brother so that he can encourage her to slim down? Or should I not even worry about it and figure that if he can live with her like that, then I shouldn't even bother? But I sure hate to see that happen.

That's hilarious! Drop the bomb on her and see what happens!
 

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