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<blockquote data-quote="soonersfan" data-source="post: 2020603" data-attributes="member: 9063"><p>I agree with the children not being important anymore. I think being a Dad is such a joke to most guys it's not even funny. As we all know, the Mom is usually the one left to raise the kids alone because so many Dads are deadbeats. Sometimes the Dads aren't given the opportunity by the moms. In most cases I see with my employees, the Moms are concerned about themselves and the Dads are just concerned about who they're going to hook up with next. </p><p></p><p>It is almost a badge of honor for some of these guys to talk about how many baby mama's they have. Then they like to talk about how they are taking care of their kids because the give the mom a box of diapers a month. It is disgusting to me. I have four pregnant girls working for me now and all my sympathy is for their children and how neglected they will be. Then my sympathy becomes concern for how much worse those kids will be and their kids, etc. I have one girl working for me who went through this phase but is serious about being a good mom now. She is the exception and she really has to struggle. </p><p></p><p>This is where my perspective comes from when I talk about single parent families. I know there are many single parents out there doing effective jobs but the scenarios I just described are quickly outnumbering any other type of family unit. All the people I mentioned are on the government dole as well. None of the fathers are paying child support. All of the mothers will likely repeat this same scenario with a different guy in less than two years. I've seen it countless times over the years but the frequency keeps going up.</p><p></p><p>This is a major issue and one I feel is the major underlying issue to many other social issues. You don't have to believe in God or have a specific moral code to know this isn't going to work and see where it is taking us. Sex education clearly is not working. These people should not be having babies. I don't have any solutions but until we fix the family unit our children will continue to be unruly and will give way to even more unruly children until our society crumbles. My $.02.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="soonersfan, post: 2020603, member: 9063"] I agree with the children not being important anymore. I think being a Dad is such a joke to most guys it's not even funny. As we all know, the Mom is usually the one left to raise the kids alone because so many Dads are deadbeats. Sometimes the Dads aren't given the opportunity by the moms. In most cases I see with my employees, the Moms are concerned about themselves and the Dads are just concerned about who they're going to hook up with next. It is almost a badge of honor for some of these guys to talk about how many baby mama's they have. Then they like to talk about how they are taking care of their kids because the give the mom a box of diapers a month. It is disgusting to me. I have four pregnant girls working for me now and all my sympathy is for their children and how neglected they will be. Then my sympathy becomes concern for how much worse those kids will be and their kids, etc. I have one girl working for me who went through this phase but is serious about being a good mom now. She is the exception and she really has to struggle. This is where my perspective comes from when I talk about single parent families. I know there are many single parents out there doing effective jobs but the scenarios I just described are quickly outnumbering any other type of family unit. All the people I mentioned are on the government dole as well. None of the fathers are paying child support. All of the mothers will likely repeat this same scenario with a different guy in less than two years. I've seen it countless times over the years but the frequency keeps going up. This is a major issue and one I feel is the major underlying issue to many other social issues. You don't have to believe in God or have a specific moral code to know this isn't going to work and see where it is taking us. Sex education clearly is not working. These people should not be having babies. I don't have any solutions but until we fix the family unit our children will continue to be unruly and will give way to even more unruly children until our society crumbles. My $.02. [/QUOTE]
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