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<blockquote data-quote="Fyrtwuck" data-source="post: 3003551" data-attributes="member: 23"><p>I wish I had a nickel for every domestic I've ever been to.</p><p></p><p>There are several different stages of separation. What you described is the "obsession" stage. He's hurt, he's doing anything he can think of to get her back. Apparently she still has some feelings for him or she wouldn't keep letting him creep back in. This is now stalking and yes, PD needs to be notified, a report on file and a victim protection order. Yes, I would also say it's time to start procedures for a permit and carrying. </p><p></p><p>The next stage is worse. Once he realizes he's not going to get her back, he starts thinking "if I can't have her, no one will". This is when it's the most dangerous and they start doing stupid things. </p><p></p><p>I don't know of any law that would prevent a third party to report the situation out of sincere concern. My suggestion is to contact the PD and see if they can have an officer go knock on her door. She will either tell the story or try to deny everything. After a few hundred domestics an officer knows if he's getting smoke blown up his behind.</p><p></p><p>If the domestic abuse law hasn't changed, it's not required for either party to file the actual charges. If PD responds and have PC to believe that physical abuse has occurred, then the officer can file the charges. It's been a while since I've read it and it could have changed since I last read it.</p><p></p><p>If you care to look it up, it's in Title 21 Oklahoma State Law. There are also some attorneys on this board that I'm sure they will know current law better than me.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Fyrtwuck, post: 3003551, member: 23"] I wish I had a nickel for every domestic I've ever been to. There are several different stages of separation. What you described is the "obsession" stage. He's hurt, he's doing anything he can think of to get her back. Apparently she still has some feelings for him or she wouldn't keep letting him creep back in. This is now stalking and yes, PD needs to be notified, a report on file and a victim protection order. Yes, I would also say it's time to start procedures for a permit and carrying. The next stage is worse. Once he realizes he's not going to get her back, he starts thinking "if I can't have her, no one will". This is when it's the most dangerous and they start doing stupid things. I don't know of any law that would prevent a third party to report the situation out of sincere concern. My suggestion is to contact the PD and see if they can have an officer go knock on her door. She will either tell the story or try to deny everything. After a few hundred domestics an officer knows if he's getting smoke blown up his behind. If the domestic abuse law hasn't changed, it's not required for either party to file the actual charges. If PD responds and have PC to believe that physical abuse has occurred, then the officer can file the charges. It's been a while since I've read it and it could have changed since I last read it. If you care to look it up, it's in Title 21 Oklahoma State Law. There are also some attorneys on this board that I'm sure they will know current law better than me. [/QUOTE]
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