I drove by Bixby today and it reminded me of what used to be Avondale, AZ, up and coming city. I liked it, sorta rural, yet a bit like BA.In the Tulsa area I'd look at Jenks and Bixby. Those are the better school districts. BA has kind of dropped in quality over the past 10 years.
A note about moving to a new area: I don't know where you're from originally, but vote against all school bonds. They raise your property taxes (mortgage and rent) and the schools get enough money now without bending you over for more. I assume since you're here that you're already voting Pro 2A.
I vote Red. RFK is the closest I get to the middle, but Trump 24 too.
I hate what CA wildfires did to my home state, literally homeless and drugs have ruined the Valley of the Sun.