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Billybob

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Desiderata -- written by Max Ehrmann in the 1920s --

Go placidly amid the noise and the haste,
and remember what peace there may be in silence.

As far as possible, without surrender,
be on good terms with all persons.
Speak your truth quietly and clearly;
and listen to others,
even to the dull and the ignorant;
they too have their story.
Avoid loud and aggressive persons;
they are vexatious to the spirit.

If you compare yourself with others,
you may become vain or bitter,
for always there will be greater and lesser persons than yourself.
Enjoy your achievements as well as your plans.
Keep interested in your own career, however humble;
it is a real possession in the changing fortunes of time.

Exercise caution in your business affairs,
for the world is full of trickery.
But let this not blind you to what virtue there is;
many persons strive for high ideals,
and everywhere life is full of heroism.
Be yourself. Especially do not feign affection.
Neither be cynical about love,
for in the face of all aridity and disenchantment,
it is as perennial as the grass.

Take kindly the counsel of the years,
gracefully surrendering the things of youth.
Nurture strength of spirit to shield you in sudden misfortune.
But do not distress yourself with dark imaginings.
Many fears are born of fatigue and loneliness.

Beyond a wholesome discipline,
be gentle with yourself.
You are a child of the universe
no less than the trees and the stars;
you have a right to be here.
And whether or not it is clear to you,
no doubt the universe is unfolding as it should.

Therefore be at peace with God,
whatever you conceive Him to be.
And whatever your labors and aspirations,
in the noisy confusion of life,
keep peace in your soul.

With all its sham, drudgery, and broken dreams,
it is still a beautiful world.
Be cheerful. Strive to be happy.
 

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I used to carry around a LOT of anger and stress, and it can actually make you physically sick.

I guess the one thing that has come of me getting older is that I know realize that no matter how you react to a situation, the situation is still there, so why let it own you and make your life worse than it already is?

I stay on an even keel these days, and good or bad, I kinda shrug it off and do what I can to make it better.

The point I am trying to make is that I am more happy and serene, no matter what kind of day I am having.
 

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A view from the other side...

Right now life is great, semi-retired but still do some work for additional income. Usually if I want a new toy under a grand I can usually come up with the funds. Have a wonderful, undemanding wife that lets me do just about anything I want. Have a new Ruger 10/22 build that can put them in one hole at 25 yards and all I have to do is walk out to my back yard anytime I want to shoot. Would like to have more money and be able to buy a newer van but that doesn't make me depressed. Have some great friends that are true friends if you know what I mean.

All in all I'm pretty happy with my life right now, if my health holds up and the guberment doesn't screw with me I'll be OK for several more years.
 

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Make a plan. Sit down with a pen and paper and write out what you want and how you think you can get there. I know that sounds cliche, but whenever I am really stressed out and just pissed off at the world, I just refer to my plan and see how far along I have come. Control what you can, but realize there are many things you cannot control. 8 years ago, I was on the brink of professional and personal disaster. I had a law partner who really screwed me and our clients. It was miserable. I stepped up to the plate, took care of the mess he created and just put my head down and worked. Within a year, things had turned around and I was kicking ass and taking names. All the bad had turned not just good, but GREAT. I haven't looked back since.
 

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