a long time ago, my wife asked me " WHEN ARE YOU GOING TO GROWUP?" I said never, I saw what it did to you. She never asked that again. By the way, in April it will be 50 years married to her.
I keep telling folks that I refuse to grow up. I also state that I still don't know what I want to be when I grow up. Good thing I'm retired and don't have to answer those questions anymore. (Oh, and 50 with my wife this coming Christmas.)