The thing that always sets off the alarm bells for me is the "talking about it" so freely.
I have had the honor of meeting and knowing men who have not only "been there" but "been so far past there you can't imagine it". Men from WWII, Korea, Vietnam, Iraq and Afghanistan. Without exception, they were rather humble about what they did, and you would never have known it unless they knew you and wanted to share with you.
Once you have "been there, done that", at least in my experience, there is no need to broadcast those facts to random people.
Dave
I have had the honor of meeting and knowing men who have not only "been there" but "been so far past there you can't imagine it". Men from WWII, Korea, Vietnam, Iraq and Afghanistan. Without exception, they were rather humble about what they did, and you would never have known it unless they knew you and wanted to share with you.
Once you have "been there, done that", at least in my experience, there is no need to broadcast those facts to random people.
Dave