We also have to keep in mind that "officer friendly" is at significantly higher risk of felonious death than a more tactically aggressive officer. Going home instead of the morgue at the end of every shift is drilled into officers routinely.
I can see both sides of the coin however I think there is a possibility to strike a balance between "Officer Friendly" and the heavy handed JBT. The "Go home at the end of the day" is something I've also become more aware of in recent history. I don't know if this catch phrase has been used for a long time or if it is newly popular with PD's but it cant be the excuse for use of excessive force like it apparently was in the Sarasota incident there is another thread about.