I've been a mod and admin on more than one. When you have a crowd like this one, it can be extremely frustrating when you try to be fair to everyone. Some members can just be jerks sometimes (not saying you are).I have been a mod on another board before. It isn't that frustrating when you MOD-ER-ATE accordingly.
You can please some of the people all of the time, you can please all of the people some of the time, (etc. etc.)...