I guess the daughter knows better than to lie to her father. It is a terrible situation and it is hard for anyone to say what they would truly do in this situation especially due to the lack of details.
To me this is the biggest factor, when the girl said she didn't know the guy it probably sent dad into emergency mode because he then thought it was an intruder who might do anything. If the girl would have said, "he's my boyfriend", I'm sorry daddy", or whatever sure dad would still be mad but would know he was dealing with a boyfriend and not intruder. Was what this girl did any different than a girl claiming rape to save her "reputation"?
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Hmmmm ... they opened for me just now ...
Oh, and you are right. All this nightmare falls squarely on a young lady who thought she was old enough to do things her parents didn't approve of (or she wouldn't have been sneaking him in) and then lied to her dad when he "caught" her. Actions have consequences ... For this family and young man and the family of the young man who died, those consequences have been devastating and will be, no doubt, life-altering, for those who are left.
Where he messed up was where he covered up to hide the goods so the dad couldn't see what he was reaching for. If he would have jumped up buck naked he couldn't have hidden anything. The dad would probably have been laughing to hard or to embarrassed to shoot.
Hmmmm ... they opened for me just now ...
Oh, and you are right. All this nightmare falls squarely on a young lady who thought she was old enough to do things her parents didn't approve of (or she wouldn't have been sneaking him in) and then lied to her dad when he "caught" her. Actions have consequences ... For this family and young man and the family of the young man who died, those consequences have been devastating and will be, no doubt, life-altering, for those who are left.
That's what I meant, this is a horrendous situation, a man felt(likely justifiably imo) he had to shoot another given the situation he was falsely put in, now he has to live with that. A young man is dead who was probably guilty of nothing more than being a normal horny teen who found one of the "right girls", and now his family has lost him.
All that because a girl ballsy enough to sneak a guy in to have sex is willing to lie to save her "virtue" when she gets caught.
I am with the majority it seems, no bill from me either. If anything I would push for some sort of punishment to the daughter. Had she told the truth everyone would be home and alive still, maybe some charges for statutory rape but alive none the less. In this case she lied, caused an altercation to happen between boy and the father. At some point the father becomes the under dog and fears for his life against an illegal intruder and defends meets force with deadly force.
He is good in my books, daughter will have to live with this for the rest of her life in that if she had only told the truth things would have turned out a lot different.
He is good in my books, daughter will have to live with this for the rest of her life in that if she had only told the truth things would have turned out a lot different.
Most fathers don't understand or don't what to understand, that their daughter grow up, faster then they what.
I could have been shot few times , if the fathers knew what really.... was going on ! >
I could have been shot few times , if the fathers knew what really.... was going on ! >
Most fathers don't understand or don't what to understand, that their daughter grow up, faster then they what.
I could have been shot few times , if the fathers knew what really.... was going on ! >
I think it's most don't want to know/admit, it's like a psycho/emo fantasy thing. And many "little girls" know they stand to gain and get the most out of daddy by staying that "little girl" as long as possible.
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