Good for you getting her out. One baby step at a time is what it takes to get a non-shooter into the shooter mind set. Pound her brain with news stories about how someone's life including their own was saved because they had a firearm in their possession. Not in the glove box, but in their possession.She was getting comfortable and then 4/5 other people showed up. with all the other guns there she decided she was done. But I bought that for her 6 months ago, and she swore she would never shoot it. I'm not sure which world/news event changed her mind, I'm just glad she is willing now.
Work on that grip.