Mine divorce was 12 years ago, for the first 6 years I just gave her a check, then she got on Sooner Care which got everything screwed up. She got off Sooner Care in 2011 and I have been giving her checks every month since like we used to do.
If at all possible don't let it go thru DHS, even the EX hated it because they messed up the amounts and payments all the time.
If at all possible don't let it go thru DHS, even the EX hated it because they messed up the amounts and payments all the time.