Well, my wife asked me yesterday what I wanted for Christmas, and to be honest, I didn't know what to tell her.
I mean, I have my own "play money" every month out of the budget that I use for essentials like gas and food while commuting, buying pizza and such for the crew at work, etc., as well as whatever extras I want - like guns & ammo, gadgets and such. And whiskey. lol. Basically my own interests.
But... I would feel guilty submitting a list of "I want a Vortex Razor 3-18x50 FFP" or "I could use a new processor for the stereo in my car". I just... I dunno, don't want to see her spending much money on me, when it means taking away money we could spend on her or The Boy or family, or giving to others. We have a set budget we've decided on for our "charitable giving," but I think, why should we spend money on presents for me when I could give that to someone who actually is in need?
Anyways, I got to wondering, if your spouse/S.O. has asked you, or were to ask you, what you wanted, what is on your list?
Maybe I just need some ideas? lol
I mean, I have my own "play money" every month out of the budget that I use for essentials like gas and food while commuting, buying pizza and such for the crew at work, etc., as well as whatever extras I want - like guns & ammo, gadgets and such. And whiskey. lol. Basically my own interests.
But... I would feel guilty submitting a list of "I want a Vortex Razor 3-18x50 FFP" or "I could use a new processor for the stereo in my car". I just... I dunno, don't want to see her spending much money on me, when it means taking away money we could spend on her or The Boy or family, or giving to others. We have a set budget we've decided on for our "charitable giving," but I think, why should we spend money on presents for me when I could give that to someone who actually is in need?
Anyways, I got to wondering, if your spouse/S.O. has asked you, or were to ask you, what you wanted, what is on your list?
Maybe I just need some ideas? lol