She's in her late thirties and has always been attractive and she dresses stylish but the last three or four years she has started to pork up a little bit. Should I tell her that so that she can slim down and start looking good again? Should I tell my brother so that he can encourage her to slim down? Or should I not even worry about it and figure that if he can live with her like that, then I shouldn't even bother? But I sure hate to see that happen.