My (Ex) SIL was crazy from the beginning, greedy, insensitive, and generally lacked family skills. She was always selling something, every interaction she was trying to sell you the latest MLM thing she was into. She had the balls to tell my parents that they should just give her "their" inheritance early as they weren't using it. My brother should have taken notice that her Mother evolved into a crazy, hoarding, hermit. SIL followed the path, Brother finally got wise, life for him is much better, we still don't ever see her...
Rotflmao! I have a DIL who told me I needed to remodel the house like she wanted ot because her and my kid were gonna get it when I died. That was ... Ahem ... Over 20 years ago ... They had literally JUST started dating. I wish he hadn't gone down that road but he was/is an adult and it's not my place to interfere. I still have MY house though ... Lol
I feel bad for them. They filed for divorce this year. I wish it hadn't worked out that way for them but maybe he'll get in touch with me now. And it not, after he's settled down from all the drama I'm sure she is stirring up I'll holler at him.