A sad time in my life

[harley128]

Very sorry to hear this news. Wishing you all the best with your Dad.

 

[RickN]

Sorry to hear man. I remember putting mine in a nursing home here in Edmond. Sadly he picked it and it was not a home I would have picked. Worse thing is he had a bunch of meds hidden in his stuff and just kept taking them along with what the home was giving him. I know he did not do it on purpose he just did not thing anyone else did anything right.

Have you looked at a rating site?

https://locate.senioradvisor.com

 

[CHenry]

I appreciate all the thoughtful words. I kinda hate putting it out here but I knew some would have words of encouragement and I appreciate it.
It's been coming and I'm kinda numb to it but it's only the calm before the storm and I'm the only sibling in state to deal with it.
Mom's not far behind either with cancer so I don't expect another Christmas at Mom's house but I'm hopeful

 

[John6185]

I'm also one of the ones that feels sorry the you are faced with this situation even though I never had a Dad or caring Mother. I wish I had had but there are many like me...

 

[Mad Professor]

Sorry to hear you are having to through this with your dad. I’m not looking forward to this with my parents. It’s tough on everyone in the family.

 

[swampratt]

All my prayers and good thoughts are going out to you CHenry

 

[dancer4life]

Prayers to you and your family on having to make such a hard decision.

 

[mightymouse]

Best of luck, buddy. It is tough, but you've been through a helluva lot in the past 2-3 years, and you're still here. You're a tough ole bird and you can make it, with a little help from your friends on OSA. We'll be thinking about you.

 

[dennishoddy]

Sorry to hear Clay. It's not an easy decision and it weighs heavily on the mind. Sitting in a memory care unit as we speak with FIL.

 

[DavidMcmillan]

So sorry to hear this news. From reading the various posts, many of us have been where you are today. Every situation is different, and the same. You have some tough times ahead, but in virtually every case, this is the right move.

Best wishes and prayers.