I'm looking for a church that doesn't do too much of the singing and arm waving stuff...
...............I'd prefer one that spent more time on sermon and bible readings... something more dry, academic or analytical if that makes sense.
Your title implies you're looking for a big church but the criteria above defeats your search. The "big churches" do all the above, because that's what today's entertainment, feel good audiences demand. "Big churches" are business entities and revenue is job #1.
If you're truly looking for ... what you say, you'll be visiting smaller groups. PM me for more info.