Your title implies you're looking for a big church but the criteria above defeats your search. The "big churches" do all the above, because that's what today's entertainment, feel good audiences demand. "Big churches" are business entities and revenue is job #1.
If you're truly looking for ... what you say, you'll be visiting smaller groups. PM me for more info.
I have to agree with that in bold above.
If you like analytical, search out a church that focuses strongly on the Bible. Not every congregation of a "brand" of church does that. If you really like the analytical side of things, go to YouTube and watch videos of Christian apologetists. I can recommend just about anything by Ravi Zacharias (recently passed away, but his online ministry works on), J. Warner Wallace, and Frank Turek. With regards to J. Warner Wallace, he was an atheist and cold case detective. When his wife became a Christian, he studied to see if what she was believing was false. What he found led him to become a Christian and an apologist himself.
Wife and I attend a Church of Christ in Mustang. Our church also has a small group program referred to as Life Groups. A lot of the groups meet in the homes of those in the group. Mustang might be a bit far for you, but if you are interested, send me a PM. I'm sure out group would welcome your attendance. Our group is made up of all ages from me as the oldest (74-years-old) down to the newborn babies to two of our young families.