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mrsgomezclan
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How women in our culture see themslves has a lot to do with media. I know it seems like a tired old line, but seriously- when all of the famous models and actresses we see are 2 sizes (sometimes more) smaller than they ought to be, it affects our view of ourselves. Its only been within the last few years that I started believing my husband's insistence that he likes me how I am, physically. Really believing that has changed how I relate to him and to myself, and other women as well. Honestly, when I was so wrapped up in my own "imperfect" shape, I saw any other attractive woman as a threat. Even KNOWING that MrG wasn't going anywhere else. I don't know if its a cultural thing, or what. Its messed up though. I wish I could go back about 15 years and let loose a bit more and enjoy life without being suspicious and jealous all the time. Thank God hubby was patient with me and now I understand myself better.