My prayers are with you and your family Jeff. This past week I lost my my stepfather's mother at the age of 91. She was an elegant lady whom I've had the pleasure to know and love for nearly 30 years. In all respects, she was my grandmother. While my family mourn her loss, we are reminded that she was the kindest, most gentle soul we ever encountered, and she has undoubtedly earned her place in the kingdom of heaven. I will pray for you and your family during this difficult time. Preparing for the end is never easy, but take comfort in knowing that she's in gods hands and she'll be free of all her illness when the lord takes her home.