I understand her point, I bet. I mentioned earlier that I have a mental block about carry up front as part of the praise & worship team (this refers to the musicians and singers up front in most Protestant churches). I'm otherwise fine carrying in church, but I've got this thing about being armed up front. It's not a worry about being made; I use a SmartCarry and I'm standing behind equipment. Maybe it has to do with standing directly under the cross when I'm playing. I don't know.
I'm fine sitting armed in the congregation. I do so at Wednesday and Sunday night services.
I freely admit this is not a completely rational thought. I suspect your wife feels the same way, and she's confused by it. On one hand, we're told to trust God for everything, but yet we know that God regularly uses people to accomplish His work and His will. Where then is the line? How are we supposed to know when to trust Him and when to do the work ourselves? The joke about the old man in the flood comes to mind, because there's Truth in in.
I'll probably work my way through my issue soon. Rationally, I know that no one place in a Protestant church building is any more holy than any other, but I think that's what's driving my thought process: that somehow being up on the platform leading others in worship is somehow more holy. Maybe that's what's causing your wife's issue: the holiness of the ground she's on. yes, Jesus talked of having swords, but it's never mentioned in the context of being in the temple. It's always when He was out walking around.
If you think it'll help, I'd be happy to talk to her. PM for emails. If your pastor is pro-carry (or their spouse is), you might have her talk to your pastor. Good luck with the process.
I'm fine sitting armed in the congregation. I do so at Wednesday and Sunday night services.
I freely admit this is not a completely rational thought. I suspect your wife feels the same way, and she's confused by it. On one hand, we're told to trust God for everything, but yet we know that God regularly uses people to accomplish His work and His will. Where then is the line? How are we supposed to know when to trust Him and when to do the work ourselves? The joke about the old man in the flood comes to mind, because there's Truth in in.
I'll probably work my way through my issue soon. Rationally, I know that no one place in a Protestant church building is any more holy than any other, but I think that's what's driving my thought process: that somehow being up on the platform leading others in worship is somehow more holy. Maybe that's what's causing your wife's issue: the holiness of the ground she's on. yes, Jesus talked of having swords, but it's never mentioned in the context of being in the temple. It's always when He was out walking around.
If you think it'll help, I'd be happy to talk to her. PM for emails. If your pastor is pro-carry (or their spouse is), you might have her talk to your pastor. Good luck with the process.