Tru dat. Been through this sooooo many times with uncles, aunts, grandmas and parents. I'm trying to remember the guy here in Oklahoma that I met years ago. He was an elder abuse/neglect advocate. I'll think of it later. He was a very passionate man and was just starting his crusade. I saw him several years later on the news a few times still advocating and still passionate.Very sorry to hear about you Dad's health and more so about the way the Hospice didn't communicate with you. I hope you can get them to communicate better with you.
Most nursing homes, hospice care and even retirement centers are crappy in about everything they do. The people that own these places and most of them that work there don't GAF about our Mom's and Dad's.
I also know an owner of some of these homes not the ones we used. He would be a good one to contact if you want to get help for your father. He is very passionate too.