When I went next door yesterday to cut up my neighbor's downed tree, I wasn't asked to do it and I didn't bother to ask. He has a rare blood cancer and I know that physical exertion would be detrimental to his recovery. He and his wife are very responsible parents to two kids and they don't waste money on niceties, so I didn't ask to be compensated for my time and gas/oil.
I did have to bum a beer from him afterward, because my wife drank the last one in the house without telling me (WTF?).
Anywho, if your need is great and you're a decent person, God and those how know the measure of your character will provide. Posting a GFM asking for handouts seems like nothing more than a high-tech version of standing at the end of the freeway offramp with a cardboard sign. JMO, YMMV
I did have to bum a beer from him afterward, because my wife drank the last one in the house without telling me (WTF?).
Anywho, if your need is great and you're a decent person, God and those how know the measure of your character will provide. Posting a GFM asking for handouts seems like nothing more than a high-tech version of standing at the end of the freeway offramp with a cardboard sign. JMO, YMMV