That's the thing, though. Those were endorsed and commanded by your god. This is also why Christians cannot subscribe to universal morality. Because you're essentially saying that was once "moral" no longer is. So time influences morality in your perspective.
It also means that in many cases, a non-Christian morality is superior as those things were wrong then as they're wrong now.
Going full-circle here... But this goes back to God mimicking the mindset of the time. He wasn't progressive, he wasn't different. He was just like the men that ruled the world at the time. Very anti-women's rights, slaves rights, non-virgin's rights etc... If anything, it's more evidence that God is the creation from the mind's of men of ancient ideologies than the creator of it.
You have some interesting arguments. But there were only 10 commandments given by God to Moses. All other laws were developed by man for that period of time. Some may or may not have been inspired by God. Just like the laws we have today. I don't think the abortion law is inspired by God. It is man's law and I truly believe contrary to God's will.
I'm sure an actual Theologian would have better answers that might clarify some of the arguments you are making. I'm far from an expert in these things.
The other thing is faith. You either have it or you don't. I could not imagine life without faith in a divine being who is working in ways I cannot understand. We know so little about the universe, other dimensions, and time / space. I think we are being a little presumptive if we think we know all about God and his workings.
Just my thoughts. Guess we just have to agree to disagree: