As far as how I feel.....
I married her cause she got pregnant. Thought I was doing the right thing, but was never to attached to her.
Anyway, I did have a meeting with a lawyer yesterday. We went over everything and his advice was that neither of us hire lawyers. That there wasn't enough to fight over and fees would eat up what is there if we did. But he did say that if she won't talk it out and agree, to give him a shout and we'll gear up for a fight!
Now, trying to talk to her... She is very emotional! Wants nothing to do with talking to me. Plus she has some stupid demands that she will never get. She is going against everything we agreed on, like just giving the papers and not being served. I told her when I went to file that I wouldn't do that to her especially at work. But she filed first, gave me the paper like was gonna do, said I had to sign them and give them back (just verifying I did recieve them). But my lawyer told me not to worry about signing then just show up to court on the scheduled date. I let her know, and explained to her why. Well today she tried to have me served at home and at work. Guy showed up and went up front, receptionist called me and asked if she should just tell him to leave..... I told her yes I right have time to mess with it.
Problem is, I've tried to contact the lawyer twice. Text and call just to see what I should do, but never heard back from him....
I married her cause she got pregnant. Thought I was doing the right thing, but was never to attached to her.
Anyway, I did have a meeting with a lawyer yesterday. We went over everything and his advice was that neither of us hire lawyers. That there wasn't enough to fight over and fees would eat up what is there if we did. But he did say that if she won't talk it out and agree, to give him a shout and we'll gear up for a fight!
Now, trying to talk to her... She is very emotional! Wants nothing to do with talking to me. Plus she has some stupid demands that she will never get. She is going against everything we agreed on, like just giving the papers and not being served. I told her when I went to file that I wouldn't do that to her especially at work. But she filed first, gave me the paper like was gonna do, said I had to sign them and give them back (just verifying I did recieve them). But my lawyer told me not to worry about signing then just show up to court on the scheduled date. I let her know, and explained to her why. Well today she tried to have me served at home and at work. Guy showed up and went up front, receptionist called me and asked if she should just tell him to leave..... I told her yes I right have time to mess with it.
Problem is, I've tried to contact the lawyer twice. Text and call just to see what I should do, but never heard back from him....