I'll take your word for it. I was neither...Oh it still got around. It was just easier for administration to sweep under the rug. I don't think it was possible to be a coach and not "diddle" a cheerleader. Seemed to be a right of passage back in the day. If you were a coach or a cheerleader, anyway.
Seriously though, "discretion" seems to have little/no meaning to kids these days. :/