Should I tell my sister in law she's getting fat?

[Settled_Nomad]

She's in her late thirties and has always been attractive and she dresses stylish but the last three or four years she has started to pork up a little bit. Should I tell her that so that she can slim down and start looking good again? Should I tell my brother so that he can encourage her to slim down? Or should I not even worry about it and figure that if he can live with her like that, then I shouldn't even bother? But I sure hate to see that happen.

Man! I would stay away that can of worms. No matter how well your intention is, the other person will always read it wrong. I am sure she knows.

 

[Gadsden]

Man! I would stay away that can of worms. No matter how well your intention is, the other person will always read it wrong. I am sure she knows.

The OP hasn't been seen on here since 2015 so...

 

[Bocephus123]

He was supposed to RUN after he told her!

 

[Gadsden]

He was supposed to RUN after he told her!

Maybe that's why we haven't heard from him. He's STILL running

 

[PanhandleGlocker]

Maybe that's why we haven't heard from him. He's STILL running

So if she’s running after him then she should have lost weight then… right?

 

[kirk1978]

So if she’s running after him then she should have lost weight then… right?

Mission accomplished!

 

[retrieverman]

I remember this topic, and the correct answer is not no but HELL NO.

 

[Profreedomokie]

Maybe he told her, and she had a hammer.

 

[okierider]

 

[dennishoddy]

Maybe he told her, and she had a hammer.

She did a Pelosi on him?