Is the southern accent intimidating?

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dowmace

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As some of you guys know I travel for a living I'm all over the country every week.

This week I'm in Spokane Washington. Far away from the southern drawl. I expected the folks in puerto rico to notice my accent and the people out in SLC but I didn't get the reactions I have recieved in this state.

Checking into my hotel I walked in the door and the conversation went like this.

Me: Howdy I have a reservation for Mr. Dowmace
oddly nervous clerk: m-m-may I s-s-s-see your ID p-p-please?
ME: sure thing ( I handed him my ID and my AMEX I do this all the time I knew what he needed and was ready)
clerk: You'll be in room 409 is that ok Mr. Dowmace? (almost shaking after seeing my ID)
Me: thats fine with me as long as it's a single king and not double queens.
clerk: no sir it is the king that you had reserved p-p-please have a nice night.

I thought the transaction was odd but figured it was cold and late at night or maybe the guy is a tweaker. I went outside and got all my crap out of the rental car and the clerk was speaking with another traveler, no stutter, and didn't have the nervous shake he did when he spoke with me. I walked through the lobby and happened to notice the clerk looking at me. The second he saw that I had turned my head he looked at his feet like I was a dangerous character.

Next notable situation.

Walking downtown in Spokane and two guys are walking opposite direction of me and as we passed I said "Howdy is it always this cold and snowy here?" Both men suddenly picked up their pace and veered far away from me as if I had told them to f-off. The only response I received was "Yup"

I just meant to be friendly and didn't mean to be a nuisance. I do this wherever I am and I have noticed in Louisiana, Texas, Tennessee, Kentucky, and Arizona I was met with friendly replies and never any nervousness. I am dressed the same as I normally am pro-rodeo wranglers, wrangler starched button down shirt and my International Harvester ball cap. I certainly don't think I look intimidating and neither of these situations really seemed to turn this way until I spoke.

Maybe I have really bad breath that only people from Spokane can smell?
 

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Why Y'all think that?

I've been fortunate to travel all over the world, and its fun to see the reactions of folks when they find out your from Oklahoma.

They love us, hate us, wonder about the oil/native americans, etc.

I try to be a good ambassador.
 

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I talk like the rube I am. People love me where ever I go. People take care of me. People buy me meals in restaurants because they think I'm as broke as I look. Hell, there idnt nobody as broke as I look.
 

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Knew a green-eyed, freckled-face blonde from Georgia whose accent was anything but intimidating... soft, warm, and inviting, just like the rest of her. Now that I've got something pleasant to dream about, I'm going to bed.
 

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Had the same reaction while on Honeymoon in San Diego last year. I'm a tall, wide guy with a shaved head, guess the accent scared the poor Kalifornians.
My wife and I were sitting at a sidewalk cafe, watching all of the freaks walk by, when another couple from Oklahoma overheard us talking. They joined us for dinner a few times. Waiters kept asking if we were from Texas.:NO:



On the other hand, was transporting a prisoner from North Carolina back to Oklahoma. Took I-20 thru the south, every place we stopped, we was greeted like lost cousins. Had meals bought for us, and was called "Hun" alot. I prefer the south...
 

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I get the same reaction in DC just for saying hello. Seriously, people act like you are about to mug or beat the crud out of them just for being polite. I'm talking about simple behavior that we would call not being a rude jerk here i.e. just looking someone in the eyes and nodding to acknowledge their existence as a fellow human being.

It must really suck being afraid of your own shadow.
 

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Never intimidated anyone, but had about 40 women all over the north ask me to stop calling them Mam. I just told them I can't help it I was raised this was and it's programmed into me at this point. For some reason the people in Montana really hated us, it got so bad we would go into the bars and play three hours of nothing but songs about Oklahoma on the touch tunes juke box. They did grow to love "Boys from Oklahoma" though.
 

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