You sure you don't mean "Law Abiding Citizen"?
Sorry, I wish I had the answer to your question. I have the same problem. I can't figure out how she just doesn't get it.
Dang it your right. Its the first movie I've watched in many years. The opening was brutal.
When we were dating, about 21 years ago, she shot my .22 pistol one day about 4 times, and that was it.
I am on the range committee of our local rifle and pistol club. We put on a lady's only course last year, and tried to get her to attend, but she wouldn't. She did shoot my .38 Smith and Wesson a couple of years ago at an armadillo one evening when I was on the road in another city. I thought that might get her fired up, but it didn't.