See, what I wanted to talk about was the responsibility that we have for our own safety, and how we can learn from others to mitigate the risk of being forced into a self defense situation...
I know. Sorry to hijack your thread. Perhaps it is still too soon.
One takeaway is that whatever you do in advance will be twisted to be used against you. Took a course on the legal issues? Obviously wanted to find a way to get away with it. Study martial arts? Obviously looking to hurt people. Carry a spare magazine? Must have been planning a mass shooting. Wearing a POV camera or audio recorder? Wow! this monster wanted a trophy reel of his kill. Decisions you make in the heat of a life or death encounter will be second-guessed by the prosecution, the media, and those you thought would "get it".
I guess the best we can do is prepare diligently, exercise discretion in our behavior, be able to articulate our reasons for our actions, and recognize that if we end up ever having to shoot, it could very well ruin our lives. As Patrick Swayze said in Roadhouse, "Nobody wins a fight."