Here is some advice from someone who went thru this years ago.
Document, Document, Document...!!!
Don't do anything important verbally, if you do record the conversation. otherwise use text messages or email. The save those and print off copies for court. now as soon as you can have your attorney file a contempt order and get her served ASAP. Sadly, unless your attorney asks for an emergency hearing this will take months to get sorted out. Provided you have not done anything to push the issue then the judge will probably drop the hammer on her for not following the word and order of the court.
Don't say anything negative in front of the child/children, keep it civil as that will come up in court as well. I will say this, I stayed cool the entire time and once I had my day in front of the judge and watched her tear my daughters mom in front of all of us in the court room it was almost impossible to get the smile off of my face afterwards. Though I get screwed in the end as my kids mom played the "I'm too poor to pay for anything" card so I got stuck with all of the bills and she only had to pay me back 10% of my attorney fees because my wife and I do very well and my daughters mom doesn't ever work and leaches off of society.
Document, Document, Document...!!!
Don't do anything important verbally, if you do record the conversation. otherwise use text messages or email. The save those and print off copies for court. now as soon as you can have your attorney file a contempt order and get her served ASAP. Sadly, unless your attorney asks for an emergency hearing this will take months to get sorted out. Provided you have not done anything to push the issue then the judge will probably drop the hammer on her for not following the word and order of the court.
Don't say anything negative in front of the child/children, keep it civil as that will come up in court as well. I will say this, I stayed cool the entire time and once I had my day in front of the judge and watched her tear my daughters mom in front of all of us in the court room it was almost impossible to get the smile off of my face afterwards. Though I get screwed in the end as my kids mom played the "I'm too poor to pay for anything" card so I got stuck with all of the bills and she only had to pay me back 10% of my attorney fees because my wife and I do very well and my daughters mom doesn't ever work and leaches off of society.