I had a bite a month ago or so on my elbow and it got too a pretty good size, whitehead and all. I popped it, but it really made my elbow sore. A week later we found 2 recluses in 2 days. I'm not for sure if my bite was a recluse bite or not, but I've always been under the impression that it was a wait and see thing. You kind of treat the symptoms. I have heard that the tissue decay did not effect every person. But that was all hearsay. let us know what the Doc says for sure. Also take pictures if you can.