Yep.POPO asked a question about what she should do, there is no debate,law suit or claim, it is a person asking for advice. OP clearly does not know that everything in your statement is true, asking the question shows ignorance of the subject matter, but I ask again why make a debate out of someone asking for help. She has now been given a couple of paths to take that will get her the answers she needs!!
Isn't asking questions and sharing knowledge what forums such as this are ostensibly for?