A friend has been served with both divorce and eviction papers, and she's being asked to pay both attorney's fees and child support to her husband! She's a really nice person and doesn't deserve this, and was totally blindsided by it all. 
I so hate hearing about this. Been there and done all that.
Well at least she has friends like you to assist her, damn few too many good people left out there.
Theres an attorney that chimes in on 97.5 in the morning sometimes who seems to specialize in divorce. I don't remember his name, but you may give a listen and see if you can find the info.
Hensley and Associates
Pay legal fees and child support to husband? Sounds like she makes loads of money and/or she did something in the marriage she shouldn't have done.
Not necessarily. My ex wife that couldn't keep her panty's on outside of the home paid me child support and lawyer fees. I made more than she did.
It may have changed by now, but my divorce was 32 years ago when Oklahoma statute was changed. Previously, the female half always got custody and child support.
I was the first in Kay county to go through the new law in Nov 1 back then where both parents had to be considered for custody depending on who could supply the best for the children.
Dummy left a Dear John letter stating she wanted me to have the kids but she would live close to see them all the time. She never saw them for 6 months and moved across town. Then the dummy never showed up for court. When my attorney gave the Dear John letter to the judge, it was a slam dunk.
I raised them anyway. She never went to a PTA or meetings with teachers, nor ever took them to a DR visit, basketball/baseball/wrestling practice. She didn't deserve them.
Under the state's guidelines at that time to determine the amount of child support, they had a formula that depended on how much each party was earning, and had to use a chart to get the amount of child support. I'm sure its all different now, but it worked in my favor back in the day.
Jeff Hensley, he seems like he is good. If I had the money I'd sick him on my deadbeat baby momma that has been keeping my son from me for 8 years!!!!
Maybe the husband should go after the boyfriend, if there is a boyfriend...
US husband sues wife’s lover — and wins
Oct 2019
Washington (AFP) – Kevin Howard watched his life fall apart when his wife of 12 years divorced him, only for him to later discover that she had been cheating on him with a coworker.
But he got the last laugh when a North Carolina judge agreed that the other man was to blame for the marriage’s failure, and awarded Howard $750,000 (822,000 euros), US media reported on Thursday.
“She had originally told me that she wanted a divorce because I work too much, wasn’t around to be there,” Howard told local television station WITN.
But a private detective discovered his wife had been having an affair with a work colleague, whom he had met before, CNN reported.
“He came to my house and ate dinner with us. We shared stories, we talked about personal lives,” Howard said.
And so he turned to the courts, filing a lawsuit before a judge in Greenville under an “alienation of affection” law dating from the 1800s, an era when wives were considered their husband’s property.
The law, which is still in effect in only five other US states — Hawaii, Mississippi, New Mexico, South Dakota and Utah — allows one member of a couple to sue another person whom they believe to be the cause of the breakup of their marriage due to “wrongful or malicious acts,” according to North Carolina’s Vavonese Law Firm.
“I filed the case because I feel that it’s very important that people understand that the sanctity of marriage is important, especially in this day and age when people question everyone’s morals, people questions everyone’s liability,” Howard told WITN.
His lawyer, Cindy Mills, tries at least one such case in court every year. In 2010, one of her clients was awarded $5.9 million in a similar situation.
That same year, a North Carolina court awarded $9 million to a woman who accused her husband’s lover of breaking up their 33-year marriage.
According to Vavonese, more than 200 suits based on “alienation of affection” are filed every year in North Carolina.
https://news.yahoo.com/us-husband-s...yb21tBGNvbG8DYmYxBHBvcwMxBHZ0aWQDBHNlYwNzcg--
US husband sues wife’s lover — and wins
Oct 2019
Washington (AFP) – Kevin Howard watched his life fall apart when his wife of 12 years divorced him, only for him to later discover that she had been cheating on him with a coworker.
But he got the last laugh when a North Carolina judge agreed that the other man was to blame for the marriage’s failure, and awarded Howard $750,000 (822,000 euros), US media reported on Thursday.
“She had originally told me that she wanted a divorce because I work too much, wasn’t around to be there,” Howard told local television station WITN.
But a private detective discovered his wife had been having an affair with a work colleague, whom he had met before, CNN reported.
“He came to my house and ate dinner with us. We shared stories, we talked about personal lives,” Howard said.
And so he turned to the courts, filing a lawsuit before a judge in Greenville under an “alienation of affection” law dating from the 1800s, an era when wives were considered their husband’s property.
The law, which is still in effect in only five other US states — Hawaii, Mississippi, New Mexico, South Dakota and Utah — allows one member of a couple to sue another person whom they believe to be the cause of the breakup of their marriage due to “wrongful or malicious acts,” according to North Carolina’s Vavonese Law Firm.
“I filed the case because I feel that it’s very important that people understand that the sanctity of marriage is important, especially in this day and age when people question everyone’s morals, people questions everyone’s liability,” Howard told WITN.
His lawyer, Cindy Mills, tries at least one such case in court every year. In 2010, one of her clients was awarded $5.9 million in a similar situation.
That same year, a North Carolina court awarded $9 million to a woman who accused her husband’s lover of breaking up their 33-year marriage.
According to Vavonese, more than 200 suits based on “alienation of affection” are filed every year in North Carolina.
https://news.yahoo.com/us-husband-s...yb21tBGNvbG8DYmYxBHBvcwMxBHZ0aWQDBHNlYwNzcg--
Similar threads
Latest posts
-
-
-
Surging home insurance costs could force families to leave these 10 states (OK is one)- Latest: OK Corgi Rancher
-
-
-
-
-
-
-
-
-
-
-
-
-
