About 90% of the time. I have noticed that toting a gun on a date sometimes rather surprises (astonishes, infuriates, baffles, etc) the lady I'm with, so I might (maybe, maybe not) leave it behind if I'm going out with someone new. (And just admitting the fact up front has ruined at least one otherwise promising encounter.)
Then you both can sit there and say I will show me mine if you show me yours. And dang yours is bigger than mine. And can I put my bullet in your chamber ?Nah, keep carrying, eventually you will meet one that has her own.