AmenHope it goes well for you.
there is a reason healthcare is so expensive these days, the training a surgeon gets to be certified in this country is insane. nothing in life is guaranteed, but if anything can be done they'll be the ones who can do it. take care of yourself first man.
just know that her cheating says nothing about you, but a whole lot about her. cheating is a personality trait, and anybody she gets with she'll cheat on too.. that's how those types of people work.