Gays and Lesbians, I couldn't care less about whether they serve or not. I have known many that have served well. For the most part once they have accepted what and who they are, are generally well grounded.Normally I would agree with both of you, especially if it was just over policy. However this had to do with the health and well being of a subordinate of mine (your sophomore year, or as we called it, yuk year you get your first leadership role over a freshman). I won't go into a full explanation, but the extent of the argument was I told him I disagreed with something. Never did I raise my voice, I was respectful, and basically followed every bit of decorum. It was simply the fact that I disagreed with him that set him off. Meh, it is what it is. I gave them the ammunition to shoot me with when I fell behind in my studies. That part is on me. Had I not failed a math class I wouldn't have been up on an academic board and the next semester I would have had a different OL. When they released me I was wanting to go active duty as an enlisted, however I missed two fitness tests due to coming of a blown ACL so they denied me.
This I agree with completely and is mimicked in my current job, though you can substitute lawsuits for politics as the cause of stupid policies. And as a whole, at least when I was in, I had no issues with 99.9% of the policies, even some of the asinine ones at WP. I simply disagree with the opinion that LGBT people have no place in the armed services. You can agree with me or don't, that's your choice.
Transgenders on the other hand, and this is especially true of MtF transgenders, are not well grounded. Regular plain Jane/John homosexuals will even admit that (though they wont admit it to anyone who doesn't support the cause, because it undermines their cause)
This doesn't even take into account that they require hormonal treatment and possibly a sex change, that's funded by taxpayers. Money that the military SHOULD be spending on beans and bullets, and not in the Operating Room for some dude to get his Johnson cut off so he can "Feel" more like a woman