I was seduced at the tender age of 14 on a sleepover at one of my good friends. His aunt came into the den sometime late at night and quietly woke me up. She put her finger to her lips and my the shhhhh jester. Took me by the hand a led me up the stairway to Heaven into one of the bedrooms....such a soft, tender and patient woman with wonderful teaching skills. Been using what I learned every since. True story..