Thank you ...
Thank you. The institution of marriage is not the fairy-tale it used to be (At my age, I'm beginning to suspect it never really was all that great ... but I digress), especially in the minds of women. Younger women have been brought up on reality tv, where it's all about "the game" ... bigger, better, faster ... They don't know what they want so they flit from man to man to man trying to find it even though they aren't really sure what they are looking for ... except for maybe a foreign car
It's not about finding "love" whateverthehell that is ... It's about finding the man who will buy you the most stuff and cause you the least amount of "muss and fuss" ... Kim Kardashian is a classic example ... And every woman I know wants to be just like her ...My advice (and it's worth what he paid for it) to ZH is this ... Find a woman (or three even) who are gainfully employed in a profession (and not at 7-11 or Night Trips -- especially not Night Trips
) and is already her "own person" if that makes any sense at all. THOSE girls are the ones who will make good friends and interesting bedfellows ... It's not as much about looks as it is mutual respect (and skill ... but if someone really strikes your fancy check, and is amenable, take the time to see if they are "trainable"). He already has "one leg up" so to speak ... EVERY girl wants to sleep with the band ... 
Several times in my past I had folks (yes, usually women but sometimes an occasional fella who was "just looking out for me"
) actually say to me "You could do so much better in the looks department". 
WTF?!?!?!!? Like I ASKED you to comment on my latest fling?!??! For your information he can tie a knot in a cherry stem with his tongue. Now excuse me while I go find out when your boyfriend is coming over for our weekly "football game", ***** ... It's not the generally acceptable way of living life (less of a problem for men than it was for women back in my day -- pesky labels ... I was not a slut ... I was adventuresome ... If I'd been a guy I would have been idolized LOL ...
And BE CAREFUL ... Always wear a sock I don't care WHAT she says ... Carry your own supply and whip it out FIRST. Don't wait for her to ask you if you have any ... Too many things out there you can catch these days that will screw up your world (not the least of which is an unplanned pregnancy) ...
OK ... that's the end of my motherly advice for ZH today ...
Me too!! Of all the things I've thought about ZH when reading his posts, "boring" was NO WHERE in there ... LOL
Believe it or not, I know someone who had that very thing happen to him. His ex- wanted him to help her by fathering a child with her girlfriend
Uhhhhh ... You wanna wind up paying child support to your ex- and her new BFF?? Uhhhh, yeah, I didn't think so ... I'd pass thankyouverymuch ... He's not looking for "THE CRAZY" ... just a little entertainment from time to time ... 
