I have been in the middle of a divorce for over 3 years, lots of $ complications I worked my whole life to attain, now having a large portion ripped away from me by things not initially my fault in any way.
Not my first one, but this is by far the hardest and most unfair one. I do feel for you and all the others. I just got off the phone with a ham radio buddy. We have another friend less than 40, has 3 little girls under 10 going through one, he has been hitting the bottle day and night for over 2 years. He has been in ICU over 4 days now, not sure he is going to make it.
Keep your perspective, things can get very bad for a while, it tears your guts up, tears your heart out, and makes your mind crazy and mad at times, but most of us work through it and come out the other side. You have to hold your self up. This is the only life we have, got to make the best of it even while we are down. Good luck to you.
Not my first one, but this is by far the hardest and most unfair one. I do feel for you and all the others. I just got off the phone with a ham radio buddy. We have another friend less than 40, has 3 little girls under 10 going through one, he has been hitting the bottle day and night for over 2 years. He has been in ICU over 4 days now, not sure he is going to make it.
Keep your perspective, things can get very bad for a while, it tears your guts up, tears your heart out, and makes your mind crazy and mad at times, but most of us work through it and come out the other side. You have to hold your self up. This is the only life we have, got to make the best of it even while we are down. Good luck to you.