Im not going to choose right or wrong but would you rather she empty your pockets and you do all the laundry? Nope that would just flat out suck. Just be happy that she is taking care of you and empty the freaking pockets yourself, problem solved.
Sure it would be nice if she could check them but its the least you can do for the misses.
Sure it would be nice if she could check them but its the least you can do for the misses.